Gala nights and client tables: a plus one who reads the room before you do
There are evenings where the company you arrive with is part of the impression you make. A charity dinner in a Park Lane ballroom, a client table after a long day of meetings, a private view in St James's where half the room already knows the other half. This page is about those, and about the short briefing that makes them effortless.
Nothing here is improvised. Rosie takes the details, passes them on, and your companion arrives knowing what the evening is, who will be at the table and what she is called.
The briefing, sent before the doors open
Two or three lines are usually enough: the kind of event, the dress code, roughly who else is there and anything you would rather she did not have to guess at. If there is a name she should use in conversation, give it. If the evening is professional and you would prefer she says as little about herself as possible, say that too. She reads it before she dresses, and by the time the car reaches the door there is nothing left to explain.
Rooms she walks into without hesitating
The ballrooms between Hyde Park Corner and Park Lane, the private dining rooms of Knightsbridge, the receptions at Cadogan Hall and the galleries around St James's are all familiar territory. So are the working evenings in Westminster after a long day in Whitehall, where the tone is quieter and the conversation is mostly other people's. She is comfortable being introduced, comfortable being seated apart from you, and comfortable spending an hour with somebody else's spouse while you talk to somebody else's chairman.
Dress, and getting it right first time
Name the code and she will keep to it: black tie, lounge suits, the deliberately vague smart evening dress that means whatever the host wants it to mean. If the invitation has a colour or a theme on it, send the wording rather than a summary. A gala in a ballroom and a client dinner in a hotel dining room ask for two quite different dresses, and the difference between correct and nearly correct is the whole of the effect you are paying for.
How long a formal evening really runs
Reception at seven, dinner at eight, speeches, then dancing or an early exit. Four hours at £1,300 covers most of it comfortably and is the usual choice. Where an evening starts with drinks beforehand and ends with a nightcap afterwards, ten hours at £2,400 is the simpler arrangement than watching a clock at midnight. A shorter reception or a private view alone fits three hours at £1,050. Every one of those figures appears on the rates page.
Discretion at a working table
Nothing about how the evening was arranged is ever discussed, by her or by us, in any room or afterwards. She has no interest in your business and will not ask about it. If a colleague asks how you know each other, she has an answer ready and it is a dull one, which is exactly what a good answer sounds like. Photographs at an event are the one thing worth agreeing in advance, and she will tell you plainly where she prefers not to appear.
Four plates for a formal room
Violetta is 30, 178cm and statuesque, which is a considerable advantage across a ballroom. Karolina is 27, dark and slim, and holds a table of strangers without appearing to work at it. Nora is 26, honey blonde and athletic, and is very good at the receiving line. Sonya is 32 and the most composed name in the edit when a speech runs long. All four are based within a short journey of Belgravia.
Notice, and the invitation that changes
A few days is ideal for anything black tie, since a dress may need choosing rather than picking. Same week is usually possible and same day occasionally is, particularly midweek. If the event is moved or the table shrinks, tell Rosie as soon as you know: three hours or more and it simply moves, inside two hours half the figure applies. Write with the date and she will tell you at once who is free that night.
Faces for gala nights and client tables
Chosen for this kind of evening from what each of them enjoys. Every face in the edit may still be asked for.
Gala nights and client tables, explained
4 answers. Tap a question to open it; anything missing, ask Rosie directly.
Four hours at £1,300 covers reception, dinner and speeches for most events. If drinks start early or dancing runs late, ten hours at £2,400 is the calmer arrangement.
Yes. The companions listed here are used to formal rooms, are content to be seated away from you, and will not raise anything about the evening's arrangement with anyone.
Yes, as you would for any guest you are bringing. Tell Rosie the name on the place card, or give her the name she should use if you would prefer a different one.
Certainly, at exactly the same figures. A two hour lunch at £750 is a common booking around Westminster and the squares on a weekday.
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Describe the evening in a single line.
A dinner, a gala, a quiet night in the suite: describe it to Rosie and she will name whoever suits it best.